We have the power of unconditional love available to us all the time, whenever we are letting go of attachment to everything else, and maintaining only the energy of unconditional love. This ability to live in the power of unconditional love means, of course, letting go of fear. I’ve never met anyone who did not have some fear about something. Often, we are not even aware of our own fears, because we have rarely, if ever, been coached in emotional wisdom and consciousness.
Letting go of fear is only part of the requirement for being in a state of unconditional love. The other essential factor is choosing non-attachment to outcome. Non-attachment to outcome means we would rather remain connected to the energy of love than achieve any particular result in any and all situations and relationships. Non-attachment to outcome means we are committed to balancing peace and love, through a higher wisdom, so that the ongoing experience as well as the result for everyone is love and positivity.
We, as humans, may have preferences, of course, and I encourage you to be aware of your own preferences, and to express them lovingly unless your intuition is guiding you not to do so at this time. We can always express our preferences to our Source, but only our Source gets to decide what is in the highest good, and sometimes that coincides with our preferences!
Now, I have experienced living in the power of unconditional love as transformational in situations and relationships at some key times in my life, which is nice, given the many times it would have been wonderful had I remained in unconditional love and did not manage it because of fear! Sometimes, the ones who need transformation the most are not the ones who transform because of unconditional love, but we do, along with others who are open to being transformed in some way by love. (Many people are not open to changing at certain points in their lives, thinking that others around them are “the problem.” Even in these situations, unconditional love accomplishes more than fear could ever achieve, because fear energy just feeds those of us who are charged with negative energy themselves.)
The other day, I thought I was going to have a very difficult conversation with someone about whom I care deeply. I felt a lot of attachment to a specific outcome. The Higher Ups (by whom I mean Godde, the Ascended Masters, and the Archangels) spent hours getting me to look at the situation proactively from a place of non-attachment, to a place of presenting positive possibilities, instead of reacting in pain to perceived negativities that had occurred in this relationship. In short, the approach I was led to was: loving, positive, proactive, and non-attached to a specific outcome.
The affirmation that always helps me in these situations is: All I need, I have within me. I chose to let go of attachment to a very strong preference, and to tell the Universe that I choose love and the highest good for all concerned. I had to admit to myself that maybe I really did not know what was in the highest good (that always helps), and to trust that the Universe indeed does know what’s best.
The result: the conversation ended up being one of the most positive and loving conversations I’ve ever had in my life, with what I feared occurring not occurring at all. In fact, what occurred was very much in line with what I hoped for (my preference).
Please remember these steps if you encounter a difficulty in a relationship that brings up your worst fears, or a difficulty that has been ongoing in a relationship:
- Trust that the Universe is indeed unfolding as it is meant to unfold.
- Let go of attachment to any specific outcome.
- State your preference.
- Remember that all you need you have within you.
- Choose unconditional love and the highest good for all involved.
- Trust the power of Love.
- Be proactive and positive in your focus on what may help in this relationship or situation, rather than reactive and complaining about someone else’s words or actions. Hurtful words and actions may be secondarily mentioned, but only with forgiveness. The focus is on love, appreciating the other person or people involved, and positivity moving forward.
May Unconditional, Divine, Blissful, Non-Attached Love Light Your Day!
May the Joy and Love of Angels Grace Your Day