The Power of Unconditional Love

We have the power of unconditional love available to us all the time, whenever we are letting go of attachment to everything else, and maintaining only the energy of unconditional love.  This ability to live in the power of unconditional love means, of course, letting go of fear.  I’ve never met anyone who did not have some fear about something.  Often, we are not even aware of our own fears, because we have rarely, if ever, been coached in emotional wisdom and consciousness.

Letting go of fear is only part of the requirement for being in a state of unconditional love.  The other essential factor is choosing non-attachment to outcome.  Non-attachment to outcome means we would rather remain connected to the energy of love than achieve any particular result in any and all situations and relationships.  Non-attachment to outcome means we are committed to balancing peace and love, through a higher wisdom, so that the ongoing experience as well as the result for everyone is love and positivity.

We, as humans, may have preferences, of course, and I encourage you to be aware of your own preferences, and to express them lovingly unless your intuition is guiding you not to do so at this time.  We can always express our preferences to our Source, but only our Source gets to decide what is in the highest good, and sometimes that coincides with our preferences!

Now, I have experienced living in the power of unconditional love as transformational in situations and relationships at some key times in my life, which is nice, given the many times it would have been wonderful had I remained in unconditional love and did not manage it because of fear!  Sometimes, the ones who need transformation the most are not the ones who transform because of unconditional love, but we do, along with others who are open to being transformed in some way by love.  (Many people are not open to changing at certain points in their lives, thinking that others around them are “the problem.”  Even in these situations, unconditional love accomplishes more than fear could ever achieve, because fear energy just feeds those of us who are charged with negative energy themselves.)

The other day, I thought I was going to have a very difficult conversation with someone about whom I care deeply.   I felt a lot of attachment to a specific outcome.  The Higher Ups (by whom I mean Godde, the Ascended Masters, and the Archangels) spent hours getting me to look at the situation proactively from a place of non-attachment, to a place of presenting positive possibilities, instead of reacting in pain to perceived negativities that had occurred in this relationship.  In short, the approach I was led to was:  loving, positive, proactive, and non-attached to a specific outcome.

The affirmation that always helps me in these situations is:  All I need, I have within me. I chose to let go of attachment to a very strong preference, and to tell the Universe that I choose love and the highest good for all concerned.  I had to admit to myself that maybe I really did not know what was in the highest good (that always helps), and to trust that the Universe indeed does know what’s best.

The result:  the conversation ended up being one of the most positive and loving conversations I’ve ever had in my life, with what I feared occurring not occurring at all.  In fact, what occurred was very much in line with what I hoped for (my preference).

Please remember these steps if you encounter a difficulty in a relationship that brings up your worst fears, or a difficulty that has been ongoing in a relationship:

  1. Trust that the Universe is indeed unfolding as it is meant to unfold.
  2. Let go of attachment to any specific outcome.
  3. State your preference.
  4. Remember that all you need you have within you.
  5. Choose unconditional love and the highest good for all involved.
  6. Trust the power of Love.
  7. Be proactive and positive in your focus on what may help in this relationship or situation, rather than reactive and complaining about someone else’s words or actions.  Hurtful words and actions may be secondarily mentioned, but only with forgiveness.  The focus is on love, appreciating the other person or people involved, and positivity moving forward.

May Unconditional, Divine, Blissful, Non-Attached Love Light Your Day!


May the Joy and Love of Angels Grace Your Day

May the Joy and Love of Angels Grace Your Day


About selfrealizationtherapy

I am a healer, life coach, author, and spiritual teacher. While I am ordained in the Christian tradition, I have also studied Eastern spiritual disciplines and practices, including Raja Yoga Meditation; Intuitive Coaching; Reiki; Falun Gong; and other forms of energy healing for both people and animals. I am available for distance healing and spiritual coaching via phone, Skype, WhatsApp, or Facetime; please email me at: to schedule a session. My goal is to assist you in connecting with your Higher Self to find fulfillment, peace, health, and happiness in life. I typically work with people for about six weeks, and then they either take classes with me and advance more, or simply go their happy way. While I cannot guarantee results, many clients find that in a few short weeks, more is accomplished than could be with years of traditional talk therapy. Born on the equator in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, I grew up moving back-and-forth between Africa and the United States my whole childhood and youth. We lived in three different countries in Africa, and three different states in the USA. I now live in Maryland, close to Washington, DC. I was widowed at the age of 28 when my 34-year-old husband died suddenly of a cerebral aneurysm that hemorrhaged, leaving me with an infant and a toddler. This crisis led me to believe that God loves us even when "bad" things happen, and also led me to pursue spirituality and become a minister. In 1996, thanks to "Autobiography of a Yogi" by Paramhansa Yogananda, and a meditation class called Raja Yoga, I started on an Eastern spiritual path, a journey which included becoming a healer and a mystic. On Thursday, May 27, 2010, I experienced what I call an Enlightenment Vision, in which I ascended and was blessed by Ascended Masters of many faiths: Master Lao Tzu, Mother Mary, Mary Magdalene, Jesus Christ, Lord Buddha, Paramahansa Yogananda, High Priest Melchizedek, Lady Kwan Yin, Master Usui, and then by the Seven Archangels of the Seven Rays. After this vision, the teachings in Higher Consciousness began. Apparently, my crown chakra was opened, and direct contact with the Ascended Masters has been possible ever since. My message to everyone is: this is possible for you to achieve as well, although getting there is not necessarily quick or easy. With a Master of Divinity degree from Vanderbilt University Divinity School, a Master of Public Health degree from the University of Texas Health Center at Houston, and a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology from Texas Christian University, I perceive a unity in my readings in Eastern religions and in Biblical studies. As a result, I believe the original message of Jesus Christ was and is a call to Self-Realization, which may also be called following The Way (a term used in the book of Acts by very early "Christians," although they did not call themselves "Christians;" they called themselves Followers of the Way. The Way, or the Tao consists of the practice of peace and love in every moment, honoring the Divine Presence within ourselves as well as within others. The Way of early Christianity was a spiritual practice which similarly focused not on the material world, but on the practice of Divine Presence within the earthly realm. When we practice The Way, or The Tao, we become one with Divine Peace, Love, and even bliss. When we attain this, we experience the "Kingdom of God" or Reign of God, within ourselves, Nirvana or possibly Samadhi. Achieving this Way within each of ourselves is the only way we will be able to usher in the Reign of Divine presence among us all here on earth. The ultimate goal of The Way, and of Self-Realization, is the attainment of unity with the Divine Consciousness, or Buddha-Consciousness or Christ-Consciousness, within, and beyond our normal mortal mind. This Unity-Consciousness is eternal, but begins in the here and now. May it be so.
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